Who are Narcissists? According to Merriam-Webster dictionary a narcissist is a “an extremely self-centered person who has an exaggerated sense of self-importance.”
Narcissists are predators who emotionally play and prey with a victim’s personality using fake charisma or tricks. They know and have mastered the game of manipulating people’s feelings for their gain.
So how do you get them chase you? Interesting most people will run away from them for they are nasty kind when their wolf skin falls off.
Since they rely in controlling you, you can have a narcissists chase you if you show them that they can have a chance of controlling you. They will want to control your emotions and if you want them to come after you like a lion after a gazelle give them a hint that they can control your emotions, and at their whim you break down and fall apart and until they come, you are done.
Narcissists never accept any responsibility for their mistakes but instead turn it around and start blaming others for it. They will blame you for it. So to make them chase you, accept it’s your fault when they mess and they will be achieving their target and be happy to be with you.